Marital Status |
Single |
Relationship |
Friendship, PenPal, Marriage, Interests Share, Hang Out, Love, A Date, Discreet Relationship, Friends With Benefits, Long Term Relationship, Erotic Chat / Video, Erotic Fantasies, Fetishes |
Interests |
Books/Discussion, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Performing Arts, Cars, Family, Internet, Learning, Movies, Music, Photography, Religion/Spirituality, Theater, Travel, TV, Volunteering |
Current Employment Status |
Retired |
Occupation |
Certified Executive Chef |
Religion |
Spiritual |
Have children |
No |
Want Children |
No |
Living Situation |
Alone |
Language |
English, French, Spanish |
Education |
Bachelors Degree |
Smoke |
Socially |
Drink |
Socially |
Drugs |
I don't use drugs |
Gambling |
I don't gamble |
Pets |
Dog |
Sexual Orientation |
Straight |
My Goal in Life |
I have many goals, some are self-imposed Others are the basic goals of all people.To have a happy life WITHOUT DRAMA ! I say that because let's face it Life is full of it's own natural drama. Why would i want anyone in my life to add to that? I must admit here that I have back problems that began as the result of an automobile accident 30 yrs. ago and now has resurfaced as disc degeneration. I feel it needs to be said to any prospective person interested in me because your probably NOT going to see me out on the dance floor doing backflips. Slow dancing is wonderful to me. Times when I can whisper in your ear, get lost in your hair and nibble on your earlobe and kiss the nape of your neck. :) :) But back to my Goals. my goals have been ongoing througout my life !! The need to help others who need my help will always be within me. I am a very empathetic man. Whether it be professionally or emotionally. ILife has placed me in a position where, when somebody reaches out for my hand for help, I am "required" to help that person. Just as I was helped many, many years ago. Plus, sometimes I get to see the results of that help bloom and come to fruition. It's beautiful. I am not a man bound by race, color, religion, politics, and sexual-orientation. I consider myself to be more spiritual rather than religious. There are MANY religions in this world, hence there are many other peoples thoughts and feelings about their own Higher Power. I respect that and I respect all that I have mentioned in regards to the above. There is much hate in this world unfortunately, and I for one refuse to fuel any of that hate. H8ters will hate. That's a fact. It's just not in my vocabulary. Love is a beautiful thing. And so, I choose the latter. Happy to be here and looking forward to meeting others. Good Luck to all in your journey here. I hope it is an adventurous, exciting and a pleasurable one!!! xoxo F.X.M. |
How Do You Swing |
Sex with your partners only |
My Perfect Match |
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Witt, Passiveness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness |
My Kind of Humor Is |
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy |
Back in High School |
Average Joe, Class Clown |
My Social Behavior |
Comedic, Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Reserved, Shy |
My Idea of a Great Time |
Hanging Out With Friends, Going to a Concert, Going to a Museum, Partying, Reading a Book, Relaxing, Staying at Home, Watch Movies, Trying New Things |
My Ideal of First Date |
In spite of the above choices, I only go out to bars and clubs with the one person I am with. I honestly have to get to know the person I am attracted to in order to understand what she likes. I am not resricted to one thing or another, I like spontaniety!! I have never really been the type to go to bars with the sole intention of just "Picking someone up" I enjoy meeting others and I like to see what may happen from there. I hope that gives you a "general" idea of the type of person I am. |
I've Always Wanted To Try |
I am a man who is sexually uninhibited. Meaning I'm adventurous and I'll try anything once!! I hope my mate would be the same also. Sexual inhibition, in my opinion, could cause problems in a relationship if one person is having problems in that part of their life. ( I understand these issues and have empathy for those experiencing, perhaps dysphoria) One of the most important factors I sincerely believe in is OPEN, & HONEST COMMUNICATION. I want to be with someone who isn't afraid to tell me what they like, how they like it and be able to direct and show me what and how they like things, how they are feeling and what they are thinking. Two-way street !! Without getting into specifics. Well...there we go !! Let's just have fun for heavens sake !! |
My Friends Describe Me As Being |
Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt |
On TV, I Always Watch |
News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports, Re-runs |
My Favorite Type of Movie |
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Thriller, Adult |
My Favorite Type of Music |
Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Folk, Gospel, Jazz, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soul |
My Favorite Type of Book |
Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Erotica, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, News, Philosophy, Poetry, Supernatural, Reference, Satire |
My Housing Situation |
All Is Calm |
My perfect match |
Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Witt, Passiveness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness |
My match's ethnicity |
African American, Asian, White / Caucasian, East Indian, Indian, Latino, Mediterranean, Middle Eastern, Mixed |
My match's religion |
No preference, Spiritual |
My match's height |
No preference |
My match's children |
No preference, No, 1 |
My match's education |
High School, Some college, College Degree, School of Life |
My match's Income |
No preference |
My match's smoke |
No preference |
My match's drink |
No preference |
My match's body type |
Slim |
My match's hair color |
No preference |
My match's eye color |
No preference |
My perfect match is |
C'mon now !!! LOL :) Oh, Honey do you think I look fat in this dress?? Not even going there. No Seriously folks. When we talk, see photos of each other, meet and talk. There's a lot that goes into this catagory. I think others who read this will agree. I am drawn to slim to average women, good sense of humor. Transgender women,Able to laugh at themselves as I am too. HONESTY and ability to easily communicate feelings is a great quality. Thanks !! |