I’m a woman with a transsexual history (18 years post-op) looking for romance – maybe more.
I'm retired so now spend my time doing what I want not what I have to.
I enjoy writing (I’ve published a guide to gender variance, my autobiography & a collection of stories and I’m now writing a novel). I provide workshops on gender variance;
Apart from writing, I try to do aquarobics several times a week; read a lot and enjoy music from 60s & easy listening to light classical. I'm quite happy having a quiet night in - but I also enjoy socialising/ wining & dining.
Most of my social life is with a group best described as a youth club for adults. I’ve done all sorts with them: meals, walks, workshops, weekends away & holidays including Kenya, Antigua & Thailand & mad events such as fire eating, driving a tank, & flying a jet (even taking the controls).
I enjoy travelling; last year I spent 3 weeks in Australia & New Zealand.
Sadly, my body reminds has been around a fair while now and I can’t do everything I used to – the main restrictions are arthritis in the knee and having had a heart attack so I struggle with walking far; so if hiking through the countryside or a round of golf is important, then I’m not for you. I doubt if I could manage long dancing at a club either (my days of going home as dawn breaks are over) on the other hand I could probably manage some slow numbers if I had someone to hold me tight.
I have lots of valued friends in my social circle – but I’m missing someone who might make my heart skip a beat when I see them; whose touch might send a shiver down my spine; someone to share special moments – and be there when I need them; perhaps to go away with for weekends or longer holidays.
Relationship
Friendship, Marriage, Interests Share, Love, A Date, Discreet Relationship
Interests
Books/Discussion, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Playing Sports, Cars, Internet, Playing Cards, Theater, Travel, TV, Volunteering
Extreme Sports, Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Going to a Concert, Partying, Reading a Book, Relaxing, Staying at Home, Trying New Things, Watch TV
My Ideal of First Date
romantic dinner.
But first meeting to see if we click likely to just be for a coffee