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You've always felt a little different, like the person you see in the mirror isn't quite an accurate reflection of your true self. But how do you know who you really are inside? Looking to the stars for answers might help provide some insight.
Astrology has long been used to gain self-knowledge and predict the future. Now some astrologers, myself included, think the positions of the planets at your birth could reveal if you're transgender or were meant to transition genders.
Many trans and non-binary people turn to astrology for guidance on their identity and path in life. Your natal chart, or birth chart, provides a map of the celestial bodies at the exact time and place you were born. The positions and relationships of the sun, moon, and planets in the zodiac signs and houses in your transgender astrology chart can reveal insights into your core self, life challenges, and destiny.
The planets represent archetypes that shape our psyche and experience. For example, the moon reflects your emotional nature and inner self, while the sun signifies your outward identity and life purpose. Planets in signs traditionally associated with the opposite gender may indicate a more fluid sense of gender identity or expression.
The houses represent different life areas and environments that shape you. Planets in the first house of self, fourth house of home life, or eighth house of intimacy and transformation may reveal issues around identity, family acceptance, or relationships that many trans or non-binary people face.
If your natal chart shows a Sun or Moon in a feminine sign like Pisces, Cancer, or Libra, that can indicate a more feminine identity or expression that doesn’t match the sex you were assigned at birth. These placements often show a sensitive, emotional nature and a desire to nurture or be nurtured.
The 12th house rules the subconscious and what is hidden or confined. Planets here, especially the Sun, Moon, or Mars, can point to a gender identity that feels confined or hidden from view. There may be a sense that your true self exists in the subconscious, waiting to emerge.
Neptune is the planet of illusion, spirituality, and transcendence. Strong Neptune placements, particularly a conjunction with the Sun or Moon, can indicate a desire to transcend limiting beliefs around gender or a feeling that your core identity is fluid or transcends societal constructions.
Chiron, the “wounded healer,” represents deep psychic wounds and the journey toward wholeness. Aspects between Chiron and personal planets like the Sun, Moon or Venus often reflect a need to heal wounds around identity, relationships, sexuality or self-expression. For trans or non-binary people, Chiron aspects can point to the inner work needed to fully embrace and express your true gender identity.
When examining a birth chart through the lens of gender identity, pay close attention to the placements and aspects of the moon, Venus, Mars, and Uranus. These planets in particular can reveal insights into a person’s sense of self and sexuality.
For example, a moon in a masculine sign like Aries or Mars in a feminine sign like Libra may indicate a blend of feminine and masculine qualities in a person’s emotional nature or self-expression. Venus, the planet of love and relationships, in a mutable sign like Gemini or Sagittarius shows a fluid and open approach to sexuality and partnerships.
Uranus, the planet of revolution and change, prominently aspecting personal planets like the moon or Venus can signify a person who does not conform to traditional gender roles. They may be gender non-conforming or experience changes in their gender identity or sexual orientation over their lifetime.
The signs and houses these planets occupy matter as well. A grouping of inner planets in the 8th house of sex and transformation or the 12th house of self-undoing can reflect a complex inner life related to gender and desire. Planets in mutable signs promote openness, while fixed signs indicate a steadfast sense of identity.
The interpretations here only scratch the surface. Exploring a full birth chart—with all its intersecting layers of signs, planets, houses, and aspects—allows for a profound reflection of a person’s essence. Astrology reveals what is, not what should be, and in that way honors people of all gender identities.
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VIPFinding love and dating at times can be very hard. Currently, people date for various reasons. Either for a serious courtship that will lead to marriage or for companionship to tackle the issue of being isolated and lonely. Other people date for them to fit into a particular class of people. Dating for people is hard at times. It's much tough for people with disabilities. They cry for love, but they face rejection and intimidation due to their inabilities arising from their physical or genetic wellbeing. Trans people also face this particular challenge. They are underrated and, in some areas, taken as signs of bad omen in the family. One being a trans person doesn't deny him or her the chance to be loved. They have feelings like any other person. They ought to be loved and cherished the same way other people receive it. The underlining factor about love is that love can be painful and cruel. Regardless of their stature, people cry for love. To the other end, love is superb. When you want to get glorious love, you have to give a glorious love because what you give reciprocates to what you get in the end. The same way trans love can be lovely depending on what the involved parties share with the other side. Trans love is a possible thing to happen and grow.
In this 21st century, dating has developed due to the development of technology. Social media platforms have taken the root course for dating. They offer a base for people to meet and mingle. It’s easy for people to meet online and start dating. There are many dating sites where trans people can get their soul hearts and their love life. Transgender dating sites are many. Trans people should make use of it to get the love they desire. For one to live a happy life full of love, he/she has to get the right person. To get the person might be hectic and cumbersome. The transgender dating app and trans dating site can help leverage this issue.
Transgender Dating App
It’s a trusted app that offers a good platform for trans dating. It has hookups for all categories according to what you want or desire. I strongly recommend it for trans women and men who want to get people whom they wish to have in life. If you are looking for a romantic and serious relationship that will put a smile on your face, then this is the way to go. While on these media accounts, whether on iOS or Android version, you feel free to be yourself and narrate your history but there explaining what you feel comfortable with on the platform. You will be in a position to know each other on the site and build strong relationships there. The transgender dating app is a community of people interested in getting partners who are trans. You will get a transman or woman there. Both of you commit to each other fully. If you have been having issues with getting people who will appreciate you as a transwoman or a transman then, don't hesitate to join the transgender dating app community.
Transsexual Dating Site
It's another platform where the business happens on a serious note. Here you will find serious relationships that will give you the love that you desire. It connects singles who are looking for serious, stable, and long-lasting commitments. It is an open forum for all people trans or not. It has members who are not trans but interested and also in need of dating trans people. You are free to venture into it and feel free to establish strong connections that will enable you to get what you desire. All you need to do is to make a strong profile that you can change later as time goes by.
Dating Sites for a Transgender Woman
There are many dating sites for transgender women available on the web. All you need to do is to be cautious with which dating site you want to use to find love. All these platforms offer almost the same privileges and will enable you to find at least someone almost to the one you were looking for on the trans woman dating site. Of course, it can’t be 100% of what you desire but a good percentage of the person you wished to have. Make a good profile that will sell you out and attract the type of guy you need. Be cautious of con people who may use these platforms to blackmail you. Some transgender dating sites get improvised to reduce the risks of having these effects of blackmailing.
The dating sites for transwomen and trans people at a higher percentage will comprise of members who have a feeling or are in love with trans people.
Be cautious about how you disclose yourself. Here are some of the precautions you are supposed to keep in mind while searching for your soulmate online.
Security Measures on a Dating Site
The following measures will not guarantee you 100% safety while on a dating site but will give you hints on how to operate safely on a transgender woman dating site. Having a glimpse of it will be of help to you personally.
— Unique Dating Site Profile
The photos you use on trans dating sites should be unique. Don't use the same profile you use on other social platforms like Instagram and Facebook. You will be an easy target as anyone can easily track your other social media accounts and get to know more about you. You will get exposed to fraud and other threats. Place people in darkness by not allowing them to locate your other social media accounts.
—Be Extra Vigilant About Suspicious People
As a transgender woman, be alert on any profiles that you suspect. In case you realize one, then report the person to the admins of the dating sites. You can also go ahead and block that individual. Blocking will give you great peace of mind while working online and at night. Connect with people you are comfortable with around you.
—Decline Financial Requests
On the trans dating sites, flee from accounts that request financial help. It is a clear indicator that the profile isn't for the aim of finding a soulmate but conning people. Do thorough investigators before you offer any financial support. If it makes sense, then lend out a helping hand. If not, you better stay with your sweat all through.
By any chance you get an account that requests for personal financial records as an individual on the transgender dating sites, then you are at liberty to decide on what to do. Decide whether to block him at the dating site and report the number as a scam.
Online Dating Precautions on the First Date
—Do detailed background research
Have a clear view of the person your intent to have on a dating site. Set your goals and conditions that this person has to meet. When you get your soulmate and before you even meet him, have a piece of background information about him. Dating sites for the transgender woman may not give the exact picture of that person. Thorough research will enable you to know him beyond the dating sites and other social media platforms. They make you aware of the kind of person you are meeting on your first date.
Research has to be on the exact location the person is requesting you to meet him. Know why that person is insisting on that particular area. Have some history of the restaurant you will sit in. The last precaution in this category is that you must meet in a public place for security reasons. Dating sites for transgender will not guarantee you security on where you meet on your first date. It's upon you to ensure you meet at a place where you will be comfortable and secure. It will save you from being founded by conmen or being subducted.
— Make Use of the Google Voice Number
Don't be in a hurry to give out your number to strangers. You can meet men or women. Use voice calls and messages offered by google. They will enable you to be private and, in any case, you decide to quit, nobody will disturb your peace of mind. Give out your number after the first date and after doing a thorough investigation on the person who is receiving your number. Give out after you are sure of his intentions on the dating sites and you.
Make at least two to three video calls to know the physical appearance of that person. It will enable you to be able to recognize the person on the first date quickly when going on a blind date. Video calls make one reduce the problem of catfishing by a person who is personification to be someone else. Video calls enable one to read the non-verbal cues about someone that will depict his hidden characters. You will be in a position to know the person well.
—Use Your Means of Transport
Agree on the dating area and time of the meeting. It should be an individual responsibility to avail himself or herself at the venue at the agreed time. Don't accept rides offered by the person you are meeting for the first time. It will be risky since you don't know the person and his intentions for you. Human trafficking and abduction are real.
If you have your vehicle, then drive yourself, and if you don't have one, then use the public means. You will be safe.
— Don’t Be Too Confidential About the Date
Have someone you trust and with whom you can share your secrets. Apart from the two of you who are dating, have a third party who is aware of your date. Third-party people are vital as they will give out your details and the details of the person you are meeting in case of any danger. If possible, you can have a friend accompany you to the date but will give the two of you some space to discuss your issues. Third-persons make it hard for that stranger you are meeting to harm you. Be confidential about your sensitive tips. The stranger shouldn’t know you before the two of you meet.
— Develop a Defense Mechanism
Strategize and come up with a viable defense mechanism in case you get attacked on your first date. You may use pepper spray that you can use to defend yourself. You can also have some crude weapons that you can easily access in case your life is in danger. The defense mechanism, weapons should be confidential and, no other person, including the person you have a date with, can access it easily or even spot it fast.
— Stay Fresh and Sober
People make a big mistake on their first date. Don't go for the date while you are not sober. Others go for the date and get alcoholic drinks. It could be a big trap that you may not be able to escape. While drunk, you can’t make vivid decisions. You won’t be in a position to defend yourself physically when attacked. Staying sober is a great thing to keep in mind. Be also keen on the drinks and foods served. You may get yourself dragged through them and, you get yourself in trouble.
Online dating sites are fine when keenly observed. A woman tends to be more vulnerable than men. As a woman on any dating site, there are incidences of physical violence, stalking, and rape on the first date outside the dating site for transgender women. Safety should come first and foremost. The few tips I have shared here will help you in and outside the transgender app and other sites for transgender dating. Have a blast as you search for your special someone through these trans-sexual and transgender dating sites. Remember to be cautious since not all people on the dating site for transgender women may have ill motives. Watch out for your safety.
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Technology has brought with it significant change; swiping left or right on your smartphone lands you a future spouse. Many people are looking for love online daily, so how do you stand out? Here are a few tips to help you find a life partner using a transgender dating app.
Catchy Photo
Have you ever looked at someone else's photo and instantly want to know more about them just by viewing their photos? When creating a personalized profile for your account on a trans dating site, ensure you have outstanding photos that will have a lasting impression. The image should be able to explain your personality other than your looks.
It isn't delightful to meet someone that looks different from their picture. It would help if you did not use deceiving photographs in your profile; use the latest image that captures how you currently look. Select a picture where your features are visible. Try also to post a picture of you doing what you love, be it cooking, going on a vacation, etc.
Bio
After uploading worthy pictures, edit your bio; a blank biography will not catch anyone's attention; most people assume it's a fake person. The reason for using a trans dating site is to know someone else and finding the perfect match, but how will that be achieved if you don't fill your autobiography.
Fully describe yourself, your hobbies, goals, personality, and traits. Talk about what you do and the activities you enjoy. The description should not be lengthy since not many people have a long reading span; keep it short and sweet. Avoid boasting and making inappropriate comments.
Don't limit yourself
Now that you have created a head-turning profile, you are free to look for potential lovers. What many don't know you can find love in people you never thought you would date since they aren’t your type. When it comes to love, there is no ideal feature for the person you want. Finding the right person is going outside your dating zone. When downloading a Trans Dating App for Android or Trans Dating App for iOS, expand your expectations, remove limitations.
Be active
Stay up to date with your profile; with time you might lose interest in your current transgender dating app, always log in and run searches. They say love finds you when you aren't expecting.
Understand the app you are using
Explore the app, look at all the features offered. Different apps have different settings. It would help if you answered questions about yourself and the person you are looking for to get a possible match.
It can be draining to sign up on a trans dating site and not find a possible match. But with the above tips of getting an impressive photo, creating a personalized profile, expanding your expectations, regularly using your app, and understanding how to use your app. You are set to find the love of life; everyone deserves love.
VIPEver had many things going on at the same time that you can't remember the last time you kissed someone or gone out on a real date. Some of us are so shy to the point where you run off at the slightest chance of having eye contact with someone else. The virtual world has introduced a whole new meaning to dating; with a click of the button, you can find yourself a new beau. There is numerous transsexual dating site that lets you find your perfect match and find love.
Benefits of Using a Transgender Dating App
The enjoyable thing about a transgender dating site is, jokers are weeded out. You sign up and meet people that share your same gender identity. Here are some of the benefits of using a transsexual dating site as a transgender woman;
Easy to start
We all have those moments where we want to get back to the dating game and eventually find love but want to do it slowly without pressure. It's up to you to create a personal profile stating the things you love and describing who you are. No one will pressure; things will go according to your own pace.
If you happen to meet someone you like but still want to know them better without meeting one on one, the decision is all yours.
You pick who you want
Online dating puts you in the driver's seat when it comes to initiating new relationships. There is a wide selection of people on transgender dating sites; this lets you choose who you want to date.
Finding your match
When filling in your details, you get to state the kind of person you are looking for, your attributes, and likes. These dating sites then match you with a compatible partner reducing the inconvenience of you looking for a perfect match.
Best for shy individuals
Starting a conversation with a new person can be intimidating, especially for someone shy. Add on to the fact that not everyone would want to date a trans. A trans woman's dating site has helped; you don't have to start a conversation with someone who may reject you for your sexuality; by joining the site, they are aware you are trans.
You don't have to pull some weird pick up lines to get someone's attention. These dating apps allow you to go through one's profile to know their interest and hobbies; thus, you know a lot about them when texting the individual.
Safe
When you chat with someone you like and set up a date, you can look up who this person is through the internet, thus exercising caution.
Interact with people outside your circle
The trans dating site has registered people globally; hence you can meet with people from all walks of life. Gone are the days where you could meet people through traveling, school, work, or events.
Don't miss out on finding your true love because of your busy schedule; download a new Transgender Dating App For Android or Transgender Dating App For IOS, and personalize your profile; you are a click away from finding love.
VIPMost people tend to get it wrong every time a person informs them that they belong to a certain dating site! This topic always brings the six million dollar question of what is a dating app? Well, a dating app in simple terms is a social network where people who are like-minded meet and share ideas, and if you're lucky you might get your soul mate from the same site.
Essentially, most people who struggle a lot with their love life are the LGBT group an initial that stands for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, and Transgender but most importantly the transgender women. In the world that will are living today, they only consider two types of gender. Here your either male or female. Something that has affected transgender women because from birth they are assigned to be male whereas in society they identify themselves as female. Transgender women are the most judged people on earth, due to their gender difference.
Being born in the wrong body is not a choice that someone is entitled to thus you will get that most of the transgender women find it had to love or find someone who loves them as they are. As a result, people who love them for who they are and want the best for them came together and created a transgender dating site that enables a transgender woman or man to find love and also connect with people from different parts of the world.
This dating site for transgender women is none other than TransSingle. It is a transsexual site where you can sign up from all the parts of the world and match with someone according to your preferences. It's a free site where you are not required to pay anything, but if you feel generous enough to donate a little cash to enable the site going then it's highly appreciated. Don't you think this is generous enough? Where Transgender sexuality is being provided with a platform that enables them to focus on finding their true love. This platform ensures that you leave your insecurities aside and be you.
Consider been assigned work in German and your area of residence is in the US, there will be a need to move to German and get a new start off. In most cases, the places one is assigned to is a new place with new people. So for one to fit in, you have to make friends, thus the essence of a dating site.
Transgender people find it hard to find love, thus TransSingle is a dating site that will gladly help you find your significant other at no cost. But as you are being provided with a platform to interact with people who you share ideas, there are some common safety tips that you will need to look into. Examples are as explained below:
TransSingle website encourages people to keep their conversations on the platform until one gets to know the other party better.
It also encourages one to stick to their own pace, since no one has the right to pressure you into a meeting or moving your conversations to emails, what's app, hang out, or other social platforms.
Before getting a match with someone, it is a requirement to go to their profile and read more about them so that when it is a match you will know how to start a conversation. So in a case where the conversation has started and your having second thoughts about this guy because whatever they are saying is not in match with their profile, then you need to be concerned.
Avoid sharing your details with people on transgender dating site, until you get to know each other better. This safety tip protects one from cone men and women on the dating sites.
It is always advisable that first dates should be in a public place to avoid being coned or other bad things to happen to you.
Being cautious is part of the safety measures of keeping people safe. When you're asked to meet in a bar or club, kindly don't get drunk to an extent of allowing someone to use you. Be cautious and love yourself.
You may be wondering how you can access this site, well wonder no more since transsingle.com has apps available for Android and IOS. Where you will only be needed to download the app from either Transgender Dating App for Android or Transgender Dating App For iOS.
Dating and finding new friends who are transgender has been made easier by transsexual dating sites like transsingle.com. Therefore, do not be afraid to look for love or someone who loves you unconditionally, rather exercise on this golden opportunity that you have been given to look for your significant other or your best friend. You never know, when an opportunity comes knocking!
Let not the lack of transitioning keep you from exploring the world and making new friends, Be the real you everywhere you go. Be proud to tell people about yourself, since by informing them more about transgender women it will enable them to understand transgender sexuality more open and the level of discrimination will reduce. More so, As you get informed about this precious site created just for the trans women, men, and all the transgender sexuality. Be kind enough to share this information with people who have no clue about it. Most importantly, always believe that good things can come out of transgender sexuality. You are no cursed but blessed and keep in mind that dating a transgender woman or man does not make you gay, you love who you love.
To the society at large, let us embrace transgender sexuality since no harm can come for just showing love and showing them that they too belong to society. Love conquers all! So, by chance next time someone asks you how you met your significant other, please don't be shy to tell the tale!
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Time and again, you hear of a missing person's report and killings of individuals who had gone to link up with someone they met on a dating site. The risk is even high with our minority group; they have been instances where some of us have been beaten up, raped, or even killed for being who we are.
All in all, this shouldn't put a halt on our quest to find someone who will love, care, and cherish us. Online dating is a new way of meeting people, and it is here to stay. The next time you download a new Transgender Dating App for Android or Transgender Dating App for iOS, ensure you uphold safety when using the app.
A laptop, phone, or tablet can't show you a person's true nature; it will mask who they are. Below is a way to help you navigate the use of a transgender dating site safely.
Unfamiliar photo
In filling in your details, don't use the same profile photo you use in other social media accounts; use one which is unique and not on any social media platform.
Do not disclose your personal information
When creating your profile, leave out all details that can point out who you are, such as social media handles, contact information, etc.
Use the app
It is advisable to keep all communication through the app; you may find someone, and after a couple of dates, start to feel comfortable and decide to take the conversation out of the app. Yes, it is convenient to do so, but it is also dangerous. When the relationship doesn't work out, you are safe since the other party doesn't have your number; maintaining communication inside the app offers you protection until you fully know the person.
Get a Google phone number
After going on a few dates with this person, it's only normal to change numbers eventually. You can set up a Google phone number and forward it to your phone; this is safe than giving your cell phone number.
Be cautions when meeting
While using a dating site for trans woman, you always have to be on high alert. It's not advisable to let someone you have met online to know where you live. When you guys have a date, meet in a public place and use your means of transportation. Before going out for the date, let someone close to you know where you are going and how long the date will last. During the date, share any alarming scenario or any change of plan with a friend or relative.
Don't leave your drink halfway when using the restrooms, every time you walk out, ensure you have finished your drink or food, or get a fresh one. The first few dates are advisable to keep them short. At any point, you feel your safety is compromised exit the date immediately.
Put your safety first when using a transgender dating site to look for a lifetime partner. There are many creepy people out here hiding behind their keyboards.
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When a transgender woman finally agrees to a first date, you will definitely be on cloud nine. However, now comes the tricky part: Where do you go on your first outing together? Being prepared for your first date is crucial to its success. The first date should be casual, but not so laid back that it seems unplanned.
Your first date with a transgender woman should give you a chance to chat and get to know each other more. Therefore, you should choose a place with a good atmosphere that gives the two of you a chance to converse freely. If you do not have any ideas for a good first date location, continue reading the following tips to find one.
Finding a Trans Girlfriend Online
This is the simple yet rewarding location for a first date. Choosing a good bar can be a little tricky, so choosing a location with a relaxed or intimate atmosphere is best. An ideal bar for the first date should be dimly lit and relatively quiet. This works well because it creates a good ambiance and actually allows you to hear each other during conversation.
Coffee Date
Meeting for coffee is another great first date idea. If you are on a tight budget, this is ideal because coffee is relatively inexpensive. The simplicity of a coffee date is another positive attribute because, with fewer variables, your date is more likely to end successfully. Given that coffee dates are almost always in the morning or afternoon, it makes things a bit more casual and friendly than an evening date. However, if you want to increase the romance, you can choose a coffee shop with a more intimate vibe.
Dinner At A Restaurant
A dinner date is one of the best ways to add a bit of romance to your first date with a transgender woman. Although this idea sounds like a no-brainer, many people actually get it wrong because they pick the wrong venue. For example, it is highly recommended that you avoid fancy restaurants because your date might expect nothing short of five-star treatment on every date. Keep things relatively casual, to begin with, and save the fancy places for special occasions.
Amusement Park
A day at an amusement park is another perfect first date
idea. It provides you and your partner with plenty of time to talk and have
fun. When people have fun, they tend to let their guard down. As a result, you
will get to know more about your date as a person. Additionally, unlike the
other ideas, being at an amusement park offers many opportunities for physical
contact with your date.
VIPGender is a societal construct. It enables people to assign a particular set of characteristics and attributes to a person based on their biological makeup. Many people think gender is biological. But it is simply not. There are people who are born as female biologically but they identify with the male gender. They begin to experience gender dysphoria at some point in time.
Those who experience gender dysphoria get abrupt mood swings; they get anxious for no visible reason at all. Life becomes very difficult for them as they are unable to fathom the source of their unhappiness. They are often diagnosed with mental illnesses and put on medication.
It is only when they realize that the source of all their agony is their biological gender which is different from the gender, they mentally identify with that they start considering some action to live the life they have always wanted to live.
Not all of them take the path of surgery to transition from female to male. Some try to change their look and appearance by dressing and overall behaviour. Irrespective of their biological makeup, they come out as a man in front of society.
But many choose to medically transition from a female to a male. A medical transition increases their chances of passing off as a male in society by multiple times. It also makes them somewhat less vulnerable to societal discrimination and abuse as they develop the outward manifestations of the gender they mentally identify with.
Gender Reassignment Surgery enables this transformation from female to male. There are many components of this surgery. There is the Mastectomy or top surgery that is typically the first surgical procedure performed on somebody who wants to transition from female to male. Many people opt just for Mastectomy and escape other procedures altogether.
Mastectomy helps in getting rid of the unwanted breast tissue and gives your chest that flat, manly appearance. There are a number of techniques involved in this procedure. Depending on your body structure and the results that you are looking at, a combination of these techniques may be utilized.
Then, there is the bottom surgery known as RFF Phalloplasty. In this surgery, the skin and veins from the forearm are used to construct a male phallus. There is another technique known as ALT Phalloplasty that can also be used to create a male penis. This technique utilizes skin and vein from the thighs instead to construct a male phallus.
Then there are other procedures also which a person transitioning from female to male might choose to undertake. There is Facial Masculinization Surgery and there is Body Masculinization Surgery.
Facial Masculinization Surgery has a set of procedures that can be used to give a more manly and chiseled appearance to the face. Body Masculinization Surgery is ideal for those who want to transform their body type to a more masculine type. It is a kind of liposuction technique that reduces a feminine hourglass figure and creates a masculine physique. This procedure can get you quite close to the ideal male figure that includes broad shoulders, trim waist and very less body fat in the lower body.
The medical procedure is just a part of transitioning. Transitioning from female to male is a complex process that has a social and psychological angle to it. You have to totally transform your identity in front of society. And for that, you have to mentally very strong, confident and be proud of your new identity.
There are a couple of tips you can follow in order to make your journey from female to male easier and less hassle-free.
Be Proud of Your Identity
You have to accept yourself before other start accepting you as a man. Societal discrimination and apathy are a part and parcel of transitioning. Do not let that intimidate you. You have to tell yourself that it’s perfectly normal to identity with a gender that is different from the one assigned to you at birth time.
Once you are comfortable with your identity, it’s important to go even a step ahead and celebrate it. Remember that you are unique and different. And it’s the habit of society to criticize everything that is unique and out of the box. But once they realize how valuable that thing is, they get crazy about it. That’s the way society works. So, once you start becoming proud of your identity and begin to revel in it, societal apathy will mean nothing to you.
People who are trying to make you conscious will shut up because you are not getting conscious! Accepting yourself is the first step in your journey of transition from female to male.
Begin Your Transformation by Coming Out
People in your immediate circle need some time to get used to the male you. Your new life as a male might be unexpected for your friends and family, even if they support your decision. So, start by coming out as soon as you can. Take folks who are close to you into confidence. Tell them clearly about your newfound identity and the life you are going to live from now on.
This might be difficult because you might have a family that has issues with your identity. You are probably scared that they will not accept this. Well, you have to learn to be a bit tough here. It’s your life and your choice. You can try and convince your family for sure but you have to be willing to go solo. For someone who has a woman’s body biologically, declaring that from now on, they are going to live and behave like a man in front of their family is not going to immediately get them the understanding they deserve.
Your family might be even hostile to you when you come out in the open. So be prepared for anything. It is very important to have a set of people who genuinely support you and your identity. These people will become a bridge between you and society. They can be your friends, relatives, family members, anyone.
But it’s important to come out in the open with your identity because even after your transformation, your friends and family will take time to get used to the new you. Social acceptance will be a slow process. You have to just keep going on. Do not be disheartened by temporary troubles or roadblocks. As long as you are consistently embracing your new life as a male, it’s all good.
Start Dressing and Behaving Like a Guy
This is a very important component of your transitioning. Even if you are mentally prepared to undergo a transition and have come out in the open, it can be very difficult to discard those old mannerisms you have been so used to.
You feel like a guy. You know it in your heart that you are a man. But if you continue to dress in women’s clothes, people around you would obviously not accept your masculinity. So, it is important to change your outward appearance too.
Begin to dress in men’s clothes. Start observing the behaviour of guys around you. Pay attention to their facial expressions, body language, the way they walk. These little cues will help you learn how to project a masculine image.
The internet too can give you a lot of information on how to incorporate masculinity in your day-to-day behaviour. For buying men’s clothing, check out what other guys on the street are wearing. And then pick clothes that would suit your appearance and build and would highlight your masculinity.
You might feel a bit awkward at first but if you keep at it, you will soon get used to it. And there will come a time when behaving like a man will come naturally to you. It won’t seem like you are acting or trying too hard. You already felt like a man in your heart. But with time, you will automatically start behaving like one externally as well.
Look for Professional Help
Your physical transformation is a very important part of transitioning. Of course, whether you want to undergo a medical transformation or not is totally your call. But if you are constantly anxious about not looking like a man enough physically, then surgery can help you get rid of that confusion.
You should first consult a therapist who would help you figure out the emotional and psychological problems you might be going through. The idea of transitioning from female to male can throw anyone’s mind into chaos and confusion. It’s a difficult state to be in. Your body is craving for an identity that is different from the biological identity assigned to you at birth. All this can get very complicated for your mind. So, a therapist will help you with the emotional and mental aspect of your transitioning.
Then you should look for a reputed and professional doctor who can offer you the best advice on the probable route you should follow for physical transformation from a female to male.
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Two-spirit is a gender that is found in only North American who fulfills one of many mixed gender roles found traditionally among many Native Americans and Canadian First Nations indigenous groups. The mixed gender roles encompassed by the term historically included wearing the clothing and performing the work associated with both men and women. This English term emerged in 1990 out of the third annual inter-tribal Native American/First Nations gay/lesbian American conference in Winnipeg.
A direct translation of the Ojibwe term, Niizh manidoowag, "two-spirited" or "two-spirit" is usually used to indicate a person whose body has a masculine spirit and a feminine spirit. The term can also be used more abstractly, to designate the presence of two contrasting human spirits or two contrasting animal spirits (which, depending on the culture, might be Eagle and Coyote). Will Roscoe writes that male and female berdaches have been "documented in over 130 tribes, in every region of North America, among every type of native culture."The term berdache was coined by western anthropologists and used until the late 20th century, mainly to describe feminine Native Americans assigned male at birth.
The term is however inaccurate and can nowadays be considered offensive. Non-natives who use this identity are often accused of "appropriating Native culture." The history of two-spirits among Indigenous American culture dates back thousands, of years and has been documented in more than 130 North American tribes. Throughout history, a person who was recognized as two-spirit was someone who identified with both male and female gender roles, and so two-spirit is essentially a third gender recognized in Indigenous cultures.
The perspective among Indigenous Americans was that having this third gender was a strength their society benefited from. In the Zuni culture, a person's gender was not assigned at birth but was grown into 3 or 4 years of age. Two-spirits were not thought of as just a man or just a woman but as embodying characteristics of both genders in a single person, making them a more whole human being.
This Two-Spirits encourages the belief that, by avoiding the pressures surrounding an individual, they are capable of establishing their own identity. This identity for native Two-Spirit individuals arises from an acceptance of their native cultural values and a rejection of Western values. This rejection specifically applies to Western conventions regarding race and sexual identity as the Two-Spirit person’s identity is maintained by their sexual orientation as both male and female and their commitment to their culture or ethnicity.
